Nice, I kinda like to use real email address as well. But my way of stopping spam is requiring verification....that the person that sent me the message is a real human. So I have an auto-responder, which sends out an email saying...

Hello,
Thanks For the Email at: email@email.com, Please allow time as this Email is being transferred to Jacob's Personal Email Address..... This Process should be complete upon you opening this Message. Please do not respond to this email. As your response will be DELETED.
Thank You,
Jacob"

Works every time!! But I need to add a white list, or something, so that the approved people don't keep getting that auto-responder cause they hate it....lol