Two more points:

1/. What you'll find is that how impressionable you are, and how much critics' opinions affect you, will decrease the more you work on your site. Hopefully, my comments will make you change things, evolve it into what you really want. Remember, we all have our own opinions, and so eventually you must settle on what you like. Critics' opinions do not change my site much now, because I am confident in it, and have developed it into a secure design that I am secure with, and continually receives high praise.

2/. I think we should collaborate. Would you like to? Are you available? You code, I'll design.