Flyout menu across frames help needed

Hello all,
I'm quite new to web design and not very good with code. I like using "Design View" mode in Dreamweaver. I have a site( www.markandtammysworld.com )that I built a couple of years ago. I'm ready to do a facelift on it and make it a little more user friendly.
I'd like to do the new site with frames to make it a little less bandwidth intensive for viewers and easier to update for me.
I have a cool flyout menu that I would like to incorporate into the site. My problem is that I can't get the menu to display past the edge of the frame it's in and over the top of the adjacent frame when it flies out.

Can anyone tell me how to do this and give me a quick tutorial?

Thanks a bunch for any help.

Don't use frames.

There are better ways to make you site better to update for you and better for search engines ... and frames aren't that way

Using includes to add common elements to your sites.